- Used to be pretty reddit. I used to be pretty. Gradually as I got older, I gained weight. I was pretty since I was a child (They said I look pretty), I always hear some good comments about my looks that I look pretty. r/loseit I know many redditors have lost a good bit of weight or have gone from being a slob to a well-dressed gentleman, and I've always wondered about the difference in the way people treat attractive people. I was thin. I mean, I do but surely just having a baby cant turn you into a person you dont even recognize anymore. Until I reached puberty, I started to look different and ugly, I don't look like the child I used to be anymore! I used to be very pretty, had a lot of male friends and never bothered understanding how to befriend women because my interests are more stereotypically masculine and I had more fun with guys. What the title says basically lol. It’s incredibly time consuming and expensive to “be pretty. As someone who used to be ugly but now attractive, I feel resentful towards society as a whole. Jun 24, 2024 · I think the fact that weekends and holidays and even evenings used to be purely for downtime makes a huge difference. Reply reply MustardBingo • Reply reply crisfitzy • Reply reply [deleted] • Comment removed by moderator Reply . I feel invisible and like I’m ugly or something lol. Ugly child, ugly teenager, ugly adult. I had good skin. I'm certainly not as imposing as I like to imagine I used to be. I look in the mirror and think I look about the same. Now I am ugly. Please be honest but you don’t need to be cruel I used to be super ugly, now I'm decently attractive [F] and feel bitter and jaded over the treatment I get now, especially from men 584 votes, 112 comments. I don't mean to condescend, but perhaps you should try losing that weight on behalf of future you and your family. People are telling you in the comments that being pretty isn't important, and they're mostly right, but it would be nice to feel pretty even if only occasionally instead of always feeling like a swamp monster. When I reflect on the values that constitute real beauty, of course I know it’s more than just physical appearance. When I ask this question of what a beautiful man is, a lot of people point to Harry Styles. 70lbs overweight even if you don't care about looking good, that's pretty unhealthy duderino. Never had much friends or romantic success back then. Everyone called me pretty, including people from my school, my family, and some strangers. And true, insecurity doesn't go away after becoming "pretty" and everything people say about how you used to look just makes you feel like shit. I've noticed people try to get into staring contests with me on the train like they think I'm acting tough. I used to be seen as rather 'smart' in school, had good grades until university, top of… Yep. I dont know what happened to me. May 2, 2022 · I’ve never had trouble attracting romantic partners and the feedback I’ve been given throughout my life is that I’m pretty, so I don’t understand where this feeling is coming from. Apr 10, 2025 · 17 Celebrities Who Used To Be Pretty Famous But Are Totally Normal Now "He walked away from potentially hundreds of millions because he thought it would jeopardize the integrity of his art Jan 22, 2025 · I’ve noticed that I’ve stopped being called pretty or attractive by people in general after I turned 26 which was last year. I know I look old but I still feel like the young me. I was the cheerleader (but I was a nice girl—I know the stereotype). Which I mean, I don't disagree, but he is being praised for embracing more feminine clothing as a man. In his eyes I was more than just pretty, I was a deep, sensitive soul. Like yeah, I think femininity is beautiful too, but I don't think that serves to reshape masculinity into something that is unique to itself but can also be beautiful. 16 votes, 37 comments. you all would judge her if she airbrushed her photos or if she didn’t… pick one. It’s also incredibly lonely. ” Between the cost of makeup, clothes, other beauty products and gym memberships it adds up fast. coming from the party who is “all accepting” seems pretty rich to be judging a woman for how she chooses to look. it’s got to be exhausting always commenting on how someone looks. But it’s also very lonely in a way, because as much as pretty privilege exists there also seems to be a pretty tax. How old do I look. I had nice hair. We don't have any help so every day is full on for 13 hours. And about how people take it as a free pass to talk about how you look/used to look. c7zt 4uu5mr gca seunq wmvbmu rczwckbd jqg thk brc zbg62fw